Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Our Experience on the Homeless Challenge: Second and Third Days in D.C.



           The homeless challenge started off right away at the National Coalition for The Homeless. After watching a video of previous college students who conducted the challenge, we were separated into groups of two and given a map along with information on shelters, soups kitchens, and other resources that the coalition normally gives to homeless individuals. At the start, my partner and I began planning our day which included attending a service and making sure we knew how to get to the soup kitchen by one o’clock that same day. At any rate, we ended up getting lost in Georgetown, but we did manage to attend an Anglican service. 

            The biggest thing I noticed after the service and throughout our day was the fact that the individuals we encountered were ready to ignore or otherwise deny that we were homeless. Though the priest and other members of the church were nice to us, it was also clear that several of them did not want us there especially since one of them told us to make sure our clothes did not touch the food. Based on the few people there, it was clear that many of them were from privileged backgrounds, and many of them assumed that we were “looking” for jobs and that we would be able to get back on our feet. But homelessness is not a thing that occurs over-night nor is it temporary.

            This was apparent when we slept outside that very night with a guide. His name was Steve Thomas, and he told a remarkable story about growing up unloved by his mother and facing negative influences through drugs and alcohol. His story deviated immensely from the typical stereotypes of homelessness that these individuals face such as addiction problems, being lazy, or having mental disorders. Though some of these stereotypes may be true for some, they are typically the direct result of a lack of a supportive community. The greatest lesson I gained from Steve’s story is that he ultimately became homeless because his mother did not care about him and his support system failed to help him get back on his feet. Steve’s story and my experience panhandling has really contributed to the belief that we need to be able to meet people where they are at and support one another especially through hard times.

            The next day involved a lot of panhandling, and there were remarkable acts of kindness where a woman bought us breakfast and gave us her gloves to another woman offering to house us in her three-bedroom apartment. Despite these acts of kindness, there were also difficult moments where people would mumble that they did not have spare change or they would walk straight past us without even looking at us. There were also moments where people were adamant and treated us differently. At a Hilton hotel, the woman there refused to give us access to showers and basic toiletries, and at a Potbelly restaurant the employee lied about having only applications online. If anything, this experience has really showed me the spectrum of human interaction from kindness to outright discrimination and ignorance. 

It is also important to note that we did not gain insight into what it is like to be homeless. To be homeless means to experience it, and it is usually a chain of events that causes an individual becoming homeless. That being said, building community by acknowledging homeless individuals and offering help ranging from a dollar to a meal is an important way of ending homelessness. Like any problem, homelessness is not the fault of an individual, but it is the result of a lack of affordable housing and societal stigmatization. Moreover, homelessness results and remains a problem through the lack of individuals to acknowledge it as a problem of society and a failure of building community. This is why I plan on bringing this information back to Minnesota because I strongly believe that everyone should be an advocate for homeless individuals. We all have the potential to give and to feel the warmness from giving, and I know that it means the world to the receiver.

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